If you sequester the amount of people who would look to other people for the answer you would understand that there is a single person who would never look to others for the answer to anything. He would look to himself for all the answers to all of everything he wants to know. If you see this person then you will know this person is a person of power and complete control.
You want to try to understand stupid? Well then you have to become stupid cause the only thing that is stupidier than a stupid person is th dumb ass that trys to make sense of their stupidty.
If you want to know the reason for a true romance you have to look at the person who loves you. If they seem like an absolute perfect match for you it's a true romance. If they seem a little bit diffrent you are some what compatible. If you can't stand them you have absolutely nothing in common.