mundane for both of you. This is not something you want. When she feels things are too mundane, she cannot reach orgasm. Therefore, you must be a little more unpredictable in the bedroom. Break your routine and try something new. Also, don't always do it in the bedroom. Try other new locations like kitchen, bathroom, hotel, car, etc. Any unpredictable move on your part is bound to fire up her passion and bring her to orgasm. 3. Go down on her. Do you know that more than 81% of women regularly achieve orgasm from cunnilingus when compared to only 25% of them from traditional intercourse?