Relationships are probably one of the biggest personal Brainwave Shots learning curves anyone will ever go through. Relationships can batter your self confidence around big time but despite any disappointments i'm sure you can find something, ANYTHING in that failed relationship which gives you some satisfaction of success or great lesson learned. People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime; so take those 'reasons' and chalk them up as great experience. Know that the next relationship is going to bring more of those great life lessons; embrace them as gifts and you'll be more open to experiences and new people. I know from my experience that it's usually only possible to see those experiences as fortunate after the fog of a breakup clears but that time will surely come.
I once heard the legendary Jim Rohn say that if you can make one sale you can make two, three, four and more. I apply that same principle here. If you've been successful before you absolutely CAN, without a shadow of a doubt do it again and again. All of us are capable of far more than what we believe we can do. Bring yourself more evidence of your own success and your belief in yourself will grow and grow. Success begets success!So start making that list today. Delve back into your past and seek out those awesome moments when you exceeded your own expectations along with everyone else's. Find those times when you set yourself a task and nailed it! These examples of how you've been successful before will give you the evidence you need to KNOW that you can be successful again at whatever you put your hand and mind to.